Local approval. Approval of subdivision plats by resolution of the Approving Authority shall be required as a condition for filing of such plats or for the filing of a deed evidencing such approval with the County Recording Officer. Approval of site plans by resolution of the Approving Authority shall be required as a condition for the issuance of a building permit, issuance of a certificate of occupancy, issuance for any permit required for any construction, reconstruction, conversion, structural alteration, relocation or enlargement of any building or other structure or of any mining, excavation or landfill and any use or change in the use of any building or other structure or land or extension of use of land, for which permission may be required pursuant to N.J.S.A. 40:55D-1 et seq., except that subdivision or individual lot applications for detached one- or two-dwelling-unit buildings shall be exempt from such site plan review and approval.