Abandonment, discontinuance or destruction. Any nonconforming building or nonconforming structure which is abandoned or vacated or which is partially or wholly destroyed by reason of any cause whatsoever, including obsolescence, fire, explosion, storm, tides, or other acts of God, may be resumed or restored and operated in its former (nonconformity) if the same is done within three years thereafter. For the purposes of this subsection, "obsolescence" can include the remodeling or renovation of the structure. If possible, the replacement of the building or structure shall conform to the requirements of this chapter with which it previously did not conform, as well as to all other requirements with which it did conform. Otherwise, the replacement of all nonconforming parts of the structure shall be in the same location and of the same dimensions, height and bulk as before the damage occurred unless changes would make the replacement less nonconforming, as determined by the volume (bulk of the structure that is nonconforming).