"Small family day care home" means a home licensed by the state of California that provides family day care to six or fewer children, or up to eight children, including children under the age of ten years who reside at the home, when all of the following conditions are met: at least one child is enrolled in and attending kindergarten or elementary school and a second child is at least six years of age; no more than two infants are cared for during any time when more than six children are being cared for; and the licensee has notified each parent that the facility is caring for two additional school age children and that there may be up to seven or eight children in the home at one time.